Why Cant I Meet a Normal Man?

I should really write a book on dating nightmares. It amazes me how many men that I have met like to cross dress. Do all men

fantasize about wearing womens lingerie. I was really attracted to this guy, and we had great talks and when we met it was

just an exciting moment…knowing we both found each other to be what we wanted.. well maybe I didnt quite.

I have only dipped into exploring my sexuality by learning what its like to be a fem domme… meaning a woman that dominates

a man. Actually I find that to be very erotic. I never thought I would but I have to be honest, there is just something

thrilling about being in control of a man you have gently tied up. I even covered his eyes since they say if you cant see your

senses aer heightened………..but jesus why do these guys all want me to use a strap on? Well being the adventurer I am I

ended up in bed with this gorgeous 5ft 8 man. He told me that his girlfriend exposed him to wearing womens lingerie and

clothing. He also told me she would dress him up and take him out in public and make him approach a man. They would go

to a gay bar where it wasnt quite so embarassing.  He said if he went to a normal place he would probably get beaten half

to death. I couldnt help but smile on that. She made him approach a man with him being in girly attire. She also made him

touch the man. Here this gorgeous man is telling me all she did and asked me if I would do the same.>>>>>>>>>>SCREECH

ELL NO I thought but then I thought again and said to myself .. do most men cheat on their women because of unfulfilled

antasies…and the answer was YES.  We had sex.. though my mind was telling me know but my hormones were telling me yes

to overloook his desire to dress like a woman. He suddenly got up and started putting on thigh highs, a pair of red lacy panties

and a bustier. Jesus… I suddenly thought am I crazy to be letting his live out this fantasy. I thought why not.. it may be fun.

He started talking to me asking me If I would make him my little cum slut.. CRAP.. what was I suppose to say… so I said YES

and went along with him. He told me there was a dildo on the dresser and he wanted me to put it in his mouth.. NO PROBLEM..

I thought hell maybe if I gag him a few times he would come to his senses…. but I couldnt get that lucky. Well toward the end

things got a little more interesting. He wanted the dildo in him…….. another SCREECCCCCCCCCCHHHHHHHHH going off in my

brain.. saying HELLLLLLLLLLLL NO! But there I went again thinking why not.. and be a little more bold and explore my sexuality

and that I might learn something. Well after getting the damn corn cob looking dildo in.. it wasnt so bad., and at that point I

thought lets do this. I moved between his legs thinking …if he wants this experience being a girl he is going to get it. I put on a strap

on and got crazy and started talking to him like I felt he wanted. I soon found myself getting into it.. it was the control plus it was pretty erotic

… By the time I was done.. poor guy was worn out……..and I was worn out and collapsed on the bed. I heard him so WOOOOW

that was amazing…your amazing and I couldnt help but smile thinking…….. he lived out his fantasy. Maybe because of my

strict up bringing Ive not really explored my sexuality like I should. This opened my eyes and I recall him saying that sex get

boring the same way every night. Can you imagine couples together for 40 years and they know exactly what their spouse

is going to do when they make love because they dont change any lovemaking routine up.. To me that would be pretty boring.

I would love to hear from all of you that have had similar things happen.. or if your a man and have explored your deepest d

darkest secrets. Now I wonder if there are other women that read my blog that are sexually adventurous… DO TELL!

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Sugar Daddies Would You Join a Mile High Club?

SEARCHING FOR FANTASY MILE HIGH MALE SUGAR DADDY MEMBERS:

I am on a search fo upscale, elite, refined gentlemen who are seeking an upscale companion to spend time with while in Atlanta, and while here I would love to show you Atlanta with a Bottle of Champagne from the sky!

I am a BBW Model, highly educated (Business Degree),well traveled, classy,  and also very erotic, sensual, and spontaneous. Im not your average BARBIE DOLL Sugar Baby. I am Big, Voluptuous, Curvy, or should I say Rubenesque…well regardless Im not bone thin. Im 5 ft 7 nearly 5ft 8,  a bit over 220 pounds, cute, funny, and alot of fun to be around.

Im the perfect companion for a man that really doesnt want emotional ties. I am curious to see just how many men would email me and tell me that they would love to join my Mile High Fantasy Club.

We would get 90 minutes in the air overlooking beautiful Atlanta, and we could have a bottle of Champagne and get to know one another.

The cost.. $500.00 membership for one year and $579 for each flight you go on within that year. The membership would I would think draw in the more elite gentlemen.

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Be More Sexually Attractive

It has been a long-standing and commonly accepted fact that when it comes to attraction, men are more “visual” than women – guys are driven toward women who are more physically attractive, while for women a man’s personality and character generally play a more important role than his looks. This popular theory, however, tends to cloud a very important truth – when it comes to selecting a long-term romantic partner, the most attractive, confident and desirable men are also driven toward those women who possess exceptional personality.

Let’s face it. Attractive women are not that uncommon. Just go to any bar or a club in your area of residence, and you are likely to see a few girls who is “hotter” than the last year’s Ms. Universe or any Hollywood actress. However, it is much harder to find a very attractive woman whose personality and character are as “hot” as her body and face. There are a few reasons for this. The power of choice inevitably corrupts a person to a certain extent. If you only had vanilla and chocolate ice cream to choose from when you are at the store, the choice would be easy, and you would likely appreciate either of the flavors. On the other hand, having 50 flavors of ice-cream to choose from confuses you and makes you wonder what you are missing out by choosing one as opposed to the other. Don’t take me wrong – having a choice is a wonderful thing and it’s one of the fundamental principles of freedom, but it also tends to adversely affect our ability to make rational choices and decisions.

The same applies to the strikingly attractive women – many of them, if not most, are corrupted by excess attention from men. They talk to too many guys, go on too many dates, get dumped way too often, and become way too disappointed, jaded, and bitter. Such a history with men creates a “stuck up” woman, who seems hostile and unapproachable. The excess attention from men also tends to keep these women out “having fun” way too much and way from developing their personality and identity.

The few very attractive women who are conscious of the consequences of being in the “scene” for way too long, and who protect themselves from becoming the victims of their own beauty, will win in the dating and relationship world. How so, you wonder? Excellent question!

The reality is that there comes a time in every desireable guy’s life when, after dating many women, he stops and falls head over heals for that one woman. But why? Is she the most attractive women out of all the others he dated? Probably not. But chances are that her character and personality are the ones that make her stand out and make the guy think “Wow, she is a rare kind… I better not mess this one up, as I am not likely to meet a woman like her any time soon.”

Indeed, she must be special. She must be elegant, feminine, and she probably naturally enjoys to please her partner. That woman truly makes her guy feel like a man. She didn’t betray many of the traditional family values that she was brought up to believe in and saw in the relationship of her own parents. She probably believes in gender roles, and she is proud of it. She actually wants the guy to take charge, and seeing a guy take a lead might even turn her own sexually.

Meeting a woman like this is particularly thrilling to a modern guy who lives in a Western civilization, and who is used to dealing with “business” women who like to challenge his masculinity and assert their own, but going out of their way to show that they can be just like men – those same women who make guys travel to the other side of the world to look for “real” women – women whose souls and hearts have not yet been corrupted by success and status, and the ones who gave rise to the very natural movement among Western men, which is referred to as “Asian fetish,” which we should understand instead of criticising and mocking.

There is a natural core of femininity, gentleness, softness and sensuality in every healthy, heterosexual woman. Don’t supress it; let it out and enjoy having it. Some people might try and take advantage of it, but the benefits of exuding femininity will surely outweigh any associated social risks.

Can Cheap Men Find a Sugar Baby?

While gold diggers certainly do exist — to the dismay of many wealthy and not-so-wealthy men — even the most unmaterialistic woman will admit to not liking cheap men. The reasons why may surprise you, as it has little to do with the money itself, and more to do with what it represents.

generous spirit

You see, women view how a man spends — or fails to spend — his money as a direct reflection of how generous and giving he is as a person. For example, a man who calculates his every dime and rarely treats his woman, or his friends for that matter, will be seen as a tightwad who puts his own bottom line above all else.

Furthermore, they will assume that this trait applies to all aspects of the man’s character, from how open he is with his feelings to how much love he is able to give. This is not to say that women equate love with money; simply that women will be more drawn to a man who is generous both in finances and spirit.

girls just wanna have fun

Another reason why women don’t like cheap men is, quite simply, that it is much harder to have a good time with a cheap man than it is with one who doesn’t mind investing in one. Unfortunately, those activities that are the most fun tend to cost a little more. Consider watching wrestling on pay-per-view for a few bucks versus going to see it live; it just can’t compare.

meet her halfway

Many women are generous by nature and love doing things for their significant others, like making them a nice dinner. It is only natural that such women expect their men to give a little bit as well, whether by taking them out for an all-expenses paid night on the town, or taking off work early to surprise them. Most women will quickly tire of doing things for their men if they get nothing in return, materially or otherwise.

don’t be a sucker

But by no means should you always pick up the bill and buy your woman expensive gifts. No woman has any right to view a man as a meal ticket — ever. The key is to strike that delicate balance between not being cheap and not being taken advantage of financially. Here’s how:

start small

At the beginning of the relationship, don’t even make money an issue. If you want to make her dinner at your place because you’d rather not spend an exorbitant amount of your hard-earned cash wining and dining a woman whom you don’t even know very well yet, that’s fine, just don’t tell her about it. Rather, tell her that you want to cook her a romantic dinner for two — I guarantee she’ll melt.

Similarly, don’t buy her expensive jewellery and clothing; but make her smile with small, thoughtful tokens of your affection, such as concert tickets. This will get her to appreciate the thought behind the gift, rather than its monetary value. Of course, if you have the habit of dating heartless gold diggers, this may not work. But in this case, you have bigger issues to worry about.

she’s worth it

Once you’ve been dating exclusively for a while, however, it’s time to show her that she is important to you and that you appreciate her, and if that means spending a little more on a nice dinner or weekend getaway, then that should be okay. This will show her that you recognize value, and that you feel that she is worth the investment in time and money.

If you don’t ever “invest in the relationship,” she will get the impression that you never will, and find herself someone who she feels is willing to. She needs to know that you value her and appreciate a certain quality of life that she can at the very least feel comfortable with.

Furthermore, she will eventually think that you must be cheap with your emotions as well, and begin to tell herself that you are probably incapable of ever letting go and truly loving her, which is a sure-fire recipe for a breakup.

the little things

In the end, most women just want to feel appreciated by their mates, especially if they are often doing things for them. They just want to see that the man they are with is as generous as they are, whether he expresses this by financial means or in other ways, such as by being giving with his time or with unselfish acts of intimacy. Again, if you are unfortunately involved with a gold digger, this may not apply to you

hanging in the balance

I happen to know of a couple of women who footed the bill on the first date — and even on a regular basis — and completely floored the guy they were with. The fact that the women in question were willing to spend their money on a first date with a guy made the men actually want to be generous with them in return. This type of equality in a relationship is rare but what we should all strive for. Until you find yourself in such a situation, don’t scare away a potential Miss Right by being a cheapskate — but don’t ever let yourself be taken advantage of either.

Why Does a Married Man Take a Mistress

There are also a variety of reasons for cheating. Since it seems to be more common for the man to be the unfaithful one I’m going write with men in mind. However, some of these reasons can also be applied to women who cheat.

Tension at Home There is often some sort of conflict or tension already in existence that makes him wish the woman he married was a completely different person. It could be a conflict about pretty much anything. As long as the tension is there, it can e fuel enough to motivate unfaithfulness.

Individuals that cheat aren’t stable enough to try to work things out when they are having marital stress. However, they are reluctant to end the marriage. They may think it would be better to try and protect their spouse and/or children by keeping the marriage intact. Instead, they start looking for a new relationship on the sly, hoping that maybe being in someone else’s arms will make them feel better. Pornography Often the cheater is addicted to viewing phonographic images of other women. As he gets involved in viewing the dirty pictures he starts to see the other women as more sexually appealing than his wife.

Soon he finds himself looking for someone else that will come closer to fitting the airbrushed mold of the inappropriate images he has grown accustom to that his wife. Upbringing His father cheated and he doesn’t seem to think that there is anything wrong with it.

That’s just the way it is. It’s a natural next step to sabotage his current relationship and find a new one if that was the example he grew up with. He may have no better excuse than “it seemed like a good idea at the time”. Just like the pattern of violence that leads an abused child to become an abusive adult, a child who had an unfaithful parent can grow up to be an unfaithful spouse.

Sometimes the man is not looking for another woman. He may be basically happy with his wife and not looking to hurt her. However, he meets another woman that seems so much more of a better fit than his wife. She becomes an easy friend, and then he decides to stop resisting letting it turn into more.

Is it Wrong to Want a Man to Spoil Me?

Is it wrong to want a man to spoil me? I think about that alot since I decided that I wanted to explore my fantasies and live them. I know I have friends that have went out with men and they bought them dinner and the next thing you know they are having sex. Whats the difference really? They got paid in a way for their time.. right?

I really would love to find a man that truly enjoys my company, that is very sexual, and that can be my friend and lover. Im not a clingy woman but I do yearn for a man to meet me at the airport and sweep me away for a rendezvous, or hopping on his boat and his arms around me as I look out into the vast ocean. I need romance.. and most men Ive meant arent romantics.. they just want to have sex.

I see a Sugar Daddy as a man that seeks to be desired, wanted, needed, and cared for. He uses his money to get what he desires. I dont see anything wrong with it… its a two way street.

I wonder alot about the what ifs.. what if I find myself falling in love with this man that is generous to me not only in bed but in my life. If he is married would it bother me that he is in bed with his wife making real love to her when our meetings arent love but purely physical.

What goes through a mans mind? Do he wonder if his Sugar Baby truly enjoys him or enjoys his money? Why cant I have both? I want the romance, the passion, and a man that is generous.

Im sure there are men out there that have an opinion on this and even women for that matter.  Would love to hear your opinions.

Confessions of a Kept Mistress

Submitted by a reader:

The art of being a mistress is underrated. Now, I would sell my soul for the new Louis Vuitton. I am good, I have what it takes. I am detached and independent. I am not needy – but for designer items and gifts. I accept these gifts easily now feeling in my mind that I deserve these gifts, I am entitled. I had my first sugar daddy when I was eighteen years old. Like a typical eighteen year old wandering around Holt Renfrew window shopping in a store that I was unable to afford. He was well affluent, well dressed – I could tell by his shoes. He offered to buy me lunch and I obliged. At the end of lunch he asked if I would like to go for a walk. I was lead into the store and told to choose something special for my time. I chose a beautiful wrap shirt at a cost of $149.00. He smiled and called me innocent and sweet and than led me to the prestigious handbag section of the store. A beautiful two-thousand dollar handbag later I was in awe at my first taste of a mutually beneficial relationship. We got to know each other better and the gifts just became more and more lush. All in return for intimate time spent together, dinners, vacations, shopping sprees, spa days and monthly expenses. I was living it up, I had no worries – I still don’t. The lifestyle takes hold of you and draws you under the wave, drowning you in it. This is the new mutually beneficial relationship, popular with high end executives and the working middle class. The sugar daddy is the new black. With sugar daddy and baby matching websites and dating profiles strictly for this purpose it is an ever-growing trend.

How to Find a Sugar Daddy

A “Sugar Daddy” is a man that takes care of a woman financially in return for her time and possibly sex. A Sugar Daddy is NOT a pimp and should not be confused with one. Sugar Daddies are generally older, well established and often wealthy, men who select a sugar baby, being a younger woman. The sugar daddy does not take money from the woman, but instead will cover many, if not all of her expenses.

For many women, especially single mothers, this is a great way for them to live the “high life” without having to work. They are able to be a full time mother and provide everything they could want for their children. However, sometimes married women are also turn on by this lifestyle because they can get additional “finer things” that their relationship may not be providing. Some of the finer things include: acrylic nails, getting their hair done, the spa, dinners at 5 star restaurants, vacations, designer clothing, jewelry, etc.

Many sugar daddies will even provide luxury vehicles for their sugar babies or more.

A sugar daddy/sugar baby relation is usually secretive. The man does not refer to the woman as his wife, and most of the time not even his girl friend.

Here’s how you can go about finding a sugar daddy:

1. Internet: There’s a website specifically designed for Sugar Daddies looking for Sugar Babies. It is simply called SugarDaddy.com. Here, potential sugar daddies can upload their photo and list all of their wants, intentions, likes and dislikes. Sugar Babies can then seek them out and they can see if a connection between them exists.
2. Work. Depending on where you work, you may have access to wealthy clients or customers. If you see potential for a possible Sugar Daddy relationship, find a way to strike up a conversation!
3. Charity Events – If you are looking for a sugar daddy, one great place to find them is at vip exclusive charity events. Remember the people that attend these events have money to give away.
4. Sporting Events – Sugar Daddies like to have hobbies. Many have luxury suites at sporting events. All you have to do is get up to the suites section and start hunting. If you’re attractive, getting up to the suites is no problem, even if you don’t have a ticket.
5. Bars – bars are a great place to locate a sugar daddy. Sugar Daddies are usually lonely by choice. They know they can have any woman they want but they are looking for a different kind of relationship. Some simply don’t want a “real” commitment. They just want a pretty young thing to run around town with but not marry. Others have been through bad divorces and are not looking to go through a new one. And some just want a woman that will appreciate their money. They want to find a girl who has never eaten at an exclusive restaurant or never had a pedicure. They want to be the ones to give the young woman the best time of her life. So since the sugar daddy is lonely, he will often go to a bar to pass time.

So if you are open to a different kind of relationship and you want to take vacations, travel in luxury, wear expensive clothing and more, get your sugar daddy today!

Hello world!

I am a High class female Sugar Baby who enjoys spending time with a generous, upscale gentleman that enjoys the company of a Big Beautiful female. I am  sophisticated, discreet, refined and NOT an Escort. I have a bubbly and fun-loving personality who will put you at ease…

An hour or an evening, the pleasure is all yours! Being the perfect seductress that I am, you’ll find yourself wanting more and more…

I’m a part time BBW model and therefore well traveled. I  have a worldly knowledge, that enables me to conduct myself in all sorts of different situations. I can be described as an open minded beauty with gorgeous face and big bodacious luscious body.

Playful and sexy by nature, I will tease you until the passion between us is explosive!   I hope you enjoy my blog and photos and you will keep coming back to see more of me, and even want to B My Sugar Daddy!

Hugs and Kisses

BBW Taylor